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Natasha And Zach: Married April 8th, 2022

If you know Natasha and Zach, you know how in love and excited to tie the knot they have been since getting engaged in 2019.  Like so many couples in recent memory, their wedding plans became an exercise in hurry-up-and-wait for the World to regain some normalcy, but their patience was rewarded this April, joined by a gathering of friends and family able to converge upon the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts to join in celebrating their love surrounded by art from every continent.

The day began at one of Richmond’s historic rowhouses where the wedding party got ready and toasted with a special bottle of rum Natasha and Zach picked up in Cancún and were saving for a special occasion.  Next were first looks; the emotion on Natasha’s father’s face as she came down the stairs in her dress, and later on Zach’s face as he saw her walking down the aisle.

I don’t think I’ve ever met a couple so pumped to be married - immediately following their ceremony, Zach and Natasha led the wedding party outside for pictures, across the VMFA’s public gardens packed with hundreds of people picnicking in the beautiful Spring weather; Zach yelled at the top of his lungs pointing to Natasha, “THAT’S MY WIFE!!!” to the cheers of the entire lawn, some people coming up to congratulate and take pictures with the newlyweds.

After dinner, while everyone else was dancing and partying, the three of us stole away to go explore the museum - Natasha and Zach danced and joked among exhibits, with just their infectious laughter echoing the secluded halls.  As longtime Richmond residents, and lovers of the city’s thriving art scene, it was a fitting location to mark the occasion they’ve been looking forward to for years.

Richmond: Spring, 2022

If you’re an avid follower of my work, you probably saw that in April I shot a wedding in Richmond, Virginia.

I don’t keep it a secret that I love travel assignments - between the logistics of carefully planning and the change of scenery (and sometimes climate) I feel extra creative when I’m in a different city to capture images; and of course visiting a new city or further exploring one you’ve traveled to before is a delight.  Albeit small in comparison to my average trip’s scope, it was my first travel work assignment since the pandemic began, which I was thankful for (I’ve had numerous inquiries from previous and new clients for travel assignments since 2020 that have unfortunately all fallen through).  Anytime I am hired to travel to another city, it makes me proud that my clients both appreciate and trust my expertise so much they will fly me to them.

In the case of Richmond, however, it’s close enough to drive; around 2hrs South of DC (oftentimes a bit more thanks to I-95 traffic in the corridor between the two cities), the Commonwealth’s capital is a popular city to visit thanks to its thriving art scene, urban mix of old Towne and suburban sprawl, and general college-town feel with VCU and the young nightlife scene.  People seem to either love or hate Richmond, with not much space in-between; I personally have always strongly disliked Richmond, and this trip, while the brief free time I had I enjoyed, only further solidified my opinions of the city (sorry!).  I’ve always found Richmond to be pretty to look at, with pockets of quaint charm, but overall as sketchy as St. Louis (which I claim as a second hometown, btw).  It actually reminds me quite a bit of Providence, RI, in that it has lots of hip and charming spots to visit, but you must be careful where you go, because that can all change in a single street, and the entire city becomes dangerous at night.  I know, the people who love Richmond will disagree, but that’s always been and remains my opinion of the city (I’d still go back and explore more - just cautiously).

Arrival

After a rainy 2.5hr drive, I arrived and got checked in to my hotel; I’ll spare you the details, but on the recommendation of several friends I had strayed away from my usual hotel brand I’m normally loyal to and tried an equivalent upscale offering, but this overall was misguided as practically all the convenience amenities I specifically stay at these business-oriented hotels for to ensure I’m able to go about getting my work done without any logistical hurdles to think about were either not as advertised, or wholly unavailable.  I’m not saying there was anything wrong with my hotel or room, it was just falsely advertised.  The downtown city view was nice though.

I had a few hours before sunset, and needed to location scout.  I was located just a few blocks from the Capitol Building, so I decided to walk over and do a quick lap with my camera and see if I could catch any cool street sights with the drizzly ambience.

Behind the Capitol, I found it fitting that the Virginia Civil Rights Monument was in direct sight of the Governor’s Mansion currently occupied by an individual whose most prominent campaign promise was to ensure the matters of civil rights of the people enshrined in this monument would *not* be taught in Virginia classrooms; a poignant reminder to the Governor at the time that although he’d like to censor history and resist the progress civil rights movements have granted all citizens, it doesn’t change reality or people’s rights.  The Virginia Civil Rights Monument is infuriatingly surrounded by monuments to confederate figureheads.

Virginia Museum of Fine Arts

I’d done my quickie lap of the Capitol Grounds, and zipped back to the hotel to drive over to my wedding venue for tomorrow, the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts.  Outside my Googling and some photos my client had sent me, I was unfamiliar with this museum, and I needed to go scout it for photo locations both for couple’s portraits and alternate groups photo interior locations in the event of rain.  I still had a few hours until close, but I needed to get this done so - I still hadn’t eaten anything beyond my large Americano that day, but dinner could wait until afterwards, because I wouldn’t have relaxed until this was taken care of.

I checked out the grounds and decided we already had a solid plan for outdoor photos, and went inside to scope out my more pressing concern.  I decided to start in the Marble Hall where most events would be taking place at the wedding - there was a small event going on inside, so I only got to peek, but it’s all I needed for that space since I wasn’t terribly concerned about it.  At this point I got in a conversation with a docent who gave me a shortlist of recommendations for interior alternate group photo locations; although I didn’t use it for group photos, some of these suggestions, and many of the places I explored inside among the museum’s exhibits, would be very helpful for the next day’s couples portraits.

I love an art museum, and I would have liked the entire day to fully explore the VMFA’s 135,000 sq. ft of exhibits.  The VMFA is the 15th largest art museum in the US, and I didn’t have that kind of time, so rushed through mostly focusing only on photogenic exhibit halls, despite seeing many artifacts on display I’d have liked to have looked at more closely.  I’m including picture highlights of my run through the museum; if you’d like to know more about anything pictured, I captured images of the associated placards, which you can view with the full gallery of photos here.

After closing out the VMFA, I head back to my hotel to be let down by their advertised restaurant not being open, and Richmond in general because apparently all restaurants either close or become nightclubs past 10PM.  After being let down by my hotel, and walking to two nearby restaurants that were listed as open online but were actually closed in person, I ended up ordering with a growing headache on UberEats and it was equal to every other UberEats or Grubhub order I’ve ever had: undercooked, overpriced food that takes over an hour for cold and soggy delivery.  This isn’t a Richmond-exclusive problem, but I was forced into experiencing it again because of Richmond.

Wedding

The next day, I shot the wedding as planned with no hiccups, and used my scouting of the museum to my advantage for some of the portraits.  You can see more of those pictures on their blog post here.

Departure

After shooting the wedding, I tried my luck at local food a second night in a row, to mixed luck: Sticky Rice had been recommended to me by several people, so I head there, but once again this was another restaurant that turns into a bar / nightclub in the evening - I liked the vibe inside, but with a headache and empty stomach I needed food, not alcohol (at least to start).  Luckily across the street was a Taqueria that was still serving food, so I scarfed down some tacos, guac, and mezcal to unwind before bed and leaving town - this was a Friday, and the next day I had *another* wedding back in the DC suburbs, so there would be no barhopping this trip.

Back at the hotel I snapped one last picture of the Capitol Building at night before packing all my gear and recharging my batteries literally and figuratively.

A very quick glimpse of Richmond - I’d visit again to give it a closer look and see if there’s more I’m still not seeing, but it’s safe to say it will never make my list of favorite cities.  A bit of an unpopular opinion to some, but that’s where I’ve landed with it.